Friday, June 30, 2017

Extremely Distressed

My very first email comes from Extremely Distressed!!!!!! Shout out to you!!!!!


Dear Mahoghany,

I have been with my boyfriend for a little while now, and he has been really acting distant lately.
He always walks away while I'm talking to him, and he is forever on his phone. He never wants to be around me.
When I talk to our mutual friends, I hear from them that he is telling them that I'm clingy and promiscuous.
They are also telling me that he says his feelings are going down for me.
I hate to believe hearsay, but I can never get him to stay and talk to me. 
​I KNOW that I am not like how he is describing me to other people and I hate the fact that I might lose him.
How can I get him to talk to me?​
Should I break up with him?
Or should I let the chips fall where they may?
Thanks so much in advance,

-Extremely Distressed






Dear Extremely Distressed,

This is a really sticky situation for you. 
I would say that your best bet would be to give him his space.
You are his girlfriend, and if you are under him 24/8, he's gonna feel like you are smothering the life out of him. 
A relationship is wonderful, but the line is really thin between a relationship and monotony.
So take a week off from your boyfriend. 
I'M NOT SAYING TAKE A BREAK!!!! 
Never take breaks! They are the death of a relationship!!! Don't Do It!!!That's still your man, but you can't really be around him for a little bit. 
It's like personal leave with pay!!!! 
Who doesn't love that?
Take this time of learn more about you and what you can handle . 
I did this once and realized I hate the taste of diced tomatoes!!!!
Who knows?
You might learn something new about yourself....

Hope it all works out,
Mahoghany

Dear Mahoghany

Hi!

Welcome to me newest blog!

Here is the place where i will be doing a number of things I want to share.

Speaking of which, welcome to Dear Mahoghany!!!!

It's the section where you ask me for advice and I give it you!!!!

So why in the world did I create an advice segment on my blog? I did it for two reasons:

  1. People ask me for my opinion a lot. so I figure that they must care about what I have to say.    
  2.  I just think its so COOL and VINTAGE!!!!


This makes me feel like I'm in the 1950's.
It just feels cozy to me!!!

So stay posted and see what there is to offer! And if you have anything you'd like to talk about, contact me at discoverfoodforthoughtseries@gmail.com or thinkinginmahoghany@gmail.com


 Stay Strong,
Mahoghany

Monday, June 26, 2017

Why Hello There!!!!!!

Welcome to my newest Blog!!!!

If you are here, you know about Thinking in Mahoghany, the blog made from love and chocolatey, shea buttery goodness! If not, then you must know about my books!

What matters to me is that you, my dear, dear friend are in the presence of this wonderful blog letting my words feed your spirit.

This world is twisted. Jumbled up from the roots to the leaves and all in between. No one knows what's what in Society any more because people have learned to embrace the beauty in their individuality.

I've created this blog to shed some light on a variety of topics ranging from sexuality to mentality, because I want to figure it out!!! For Me and For YOU!

So don't be a stranger to me! I've got lots to share with you and I would LOVE for you to see it.

And if you like what you see, spread the word! Tell your friends! I double dog dare ya!!!!

And if you have some questions or need some advice, LET ME KNOW! I'm always looking for some good feedback.

You can contact me at thinkinginmahoghany@gmail.com, or discoverfoodforthoughtseries@gmail.com
I look forward to hearing from you!!!

Stay Strong,
Mahoghany
aka
Joy Milton